I realize this is a major generalization, that not all lesbians hate children. It just seems that most lesbians I know would rather have a dog than a kid, that the pitter-patter of four little feet is more appealing than the pitter-patter of two feet.
Now, I am a lesbian who has two kids and four dogs (three cats,etc.), so perhaps you would think my analysis would be skewed. In reality, though, I too have little patience for most children. I love my children more than life, and would gladly give up my own for them, but, honestly, I find it hard to drum up enthusiasm for other peoples's children.
I have never had that "urge" to have a baby, that maternal need to give birth (and after watching childbirth up close and personal, it would never have happened). My wife always wanted to have children, so when I decided that she was the one for me, children were part of the package. Honestly, looking back now, I really didn't put a lot
of thought into being a parent. It's scary really. I'm really lucky it worked out as well as it did. My children are the light of my life.
I was also very lucky that I had boys. I can clothe a boy, I can play catch with a boy, basically I am much better at boy things. (Perhaps like many lesbians, I am missing part of the girl gene.) I don't think I could have picked out clothes for a girl if my life depended on it. I have gone through most of my life avoiding wearing a dress or pantyhose, and I don't see that changing any time soon. (When I look at myself in a dress, I think I look like a man in drag! ) A lot of the little girls in my neighborhood seem to naturally want to wear dresses and play with dolls.
What would I have done with that?? All I know is that it wouldn't have been pretty!
So, why do most of us want to shower our affections on a pet and have them be our "children"? I'm not quite sure. But I'm lucky it all worked out for me. I have my
kids and my pets ... and my life is awesome.
But I don't think I would have been unhappy not having kids. I would have had no idea of what being a parent is like, so I wouldn't have missed it.
So, do you think this is true? If so, why?
Our goal is to simply share some of our knowledge and experience as working parents and pet experts who understand that our relationships with our pets can impact and change our lives. In addition, we will share current events and some funny antidotes. We want to offer advice on dog care and training. How to raise a dog, dog facts, etc... Examples could be the food we choose, the exercise methods, where we board them, and what is the best way to groom them?
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Why Do Most Lesbians Love Dogs More than Kids?
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